{"id":3242,"date":"2015-01-22T23:23:24","date_gmt":"2015-01-23T07:23:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.coachingintothelight.com\/?p=3242"},"modified":"2016-12-28T14:19:57","modified_gmt":"2016-12-28T22:19:57","slug":"brainworks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.therapistoc.com\/?p=3242","title":{"rendered":"Brainworks"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>STRESS IN BUSINESS!!! Imagine you&#8217;re with a client about to forge a big business alliance but for some reason, the way the client spoke triggered an unpleasant memory for you. A memory about losing a huge deal last year which lead to a downward spiral in your life \u2013 lack of finances lead to more arguing with your spouse, and more insecurities&#8230; in fact you are desperate for this deal, but the more you think this, the more stressed you get. Did you know that the more you try to suppress feelings, the worse they get? 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